archivedating

Here we are again, then. 14th February. Hearts, flowers, huge ecologically destructive helium balloons, cheap chocolates, even cheaper sentiment and...

We're long used to living our lives in public. Even before social media really took off and we were all superstars...

It isn’t a date. Definitely not. We are not meeting with a view to anything other than having a few...

We all love a good old whinge about dating apps, don't we? As a gay man, especially, it can be...

Like most people on social media, I have blinked and seen five years or more suddenly go by. Have I...

The thing with many relationships is they have a certain shelf life, don't they? When you're in them, and know you...

I love autumn. It may be a cliché to harp on about its colours and the smell of bonfires and...

  Writing this on a Sunday feels like wearing a Team GB T-shirt a year after the Olympics or a...

  When you first come out as gay, one of the worst things is not worrying what people will think,...

  There are lots of misconceptions about gay men out there. That we're promiscuous, spending alternate weekends at chillouts, spangled...