Gay stuffOpinionSaturday11 CommentsI keep moving. I am always moving. I take the stairs, not the lift, never stand on the escalators if...
Gay stuffThe day homophobia died2 CommentsI will never forget that day. How much we sang, how we danced. Once the clouds had cleared, the sky...
Gay stuffGay men and the promiscuity ‘problem’9 CommentsWhen you first come out as gay, one of the very first things you might do is reject the notion...
Gay stuffPicking Kylie’s best song? There will be blood9 CommentsIf you want to start a fight with a gay man, I'd advise against it. We may come across as...
Gay stuffOpinionYes, straight men at my gym, it’s true – I’m secretly in love with you all3 CommentsThere are secrets and betrayals we must take to the grave, as to utter them would cause untold destruction. There are...
OpinionThe strange case of the phantom gay uncle12 CommentsIt’s funny, the future you imagine for yourself when there is so much of it in front of you. When...
Gay stuffOpinion13 reasons we hate hookup apps – and why we should maybe think againno commentWe all love a good old whinge about dating apps, don't we? As a gay man, especially, it can be...
Gay stuffOpinionBroverload – where have all the men gone?no commentThe older a gay I become, the fewer straight men I tend to hang around with. It's not a conscious...
Gay stuffOpinionWhy “we all knew!” is the worst thing to say when somebody comes outno commentRead: How not to react when somebody comes out Coming out – you never stop doing it, really. First you...
Gay stuffOpinionAbout a boy, and a doll24 CommentsYou've all already seen that little boy in the Barbie ad, right? Course you have, it's been everywhere. But in...