What’s the worst thing you’ve ever heard on a date?
We've all been there, 'enjoying' ourselves as best we can on a date, when suddenly, out of NOWHERE comes the...
Postbag: Is it OK to wear shorts on a date?
I get asked a lot of questions, both on Twitter and over email. Usually it’s things like “Is that your...
How to say no
No can be a tough word to say at the best of times. Another cake? Don’t mind if I do....
Why blaming the rise of HIV on ‘gay sex parties’ is irresponsible and dangerous
Sometimes it’s wonderful to wake up gay and some days, well, not so much. My perfectly Instagrammed breakfast of eggs...
Three things that make waking up ‘back at theirs’ even worse
Well, you did it again. Was it the tequila, the summer heat, or just the fact that you never let...
10 devastatingly simple dos and don’ts of online dating
Online dating needn’t be as bad as you think. I survived, so can you. Just watch out for the don’ts...
10 terrible opening lines for a dating profile
As I always say, your dating profile is your storefront, your big shiny window display that you use to get...
Everything I know about love
I am wary of those who scoff at or reject love. They deadpan throwaway lines that they probably nicked from...
A further 25 men you should never date
Before princes, come frogs, and it seems Mr Right stands at the end of a long line of Mr Wrongs....
What Gaydar did next
You know what they say: “evolve or die”. And in a world where your next French kiss might be no...























