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Why “we all knew!” is the worst thing to say when somebody comes out
Read: How not to react when somebody comes out Coming out – you never stop doing it, really. First you...
Sanjive and Jane
We live in a terrifyingly ironic world. We hate-follow, we roll our eyes, we sneer at things other people enjoy. We...
Scott and Peter
When you're gay, and of a certain age, you spend most of your time trying to convince people – and perhaps...
27 achievable New Year’s resolutions for 2016
On New Year's Eve, as 2015 gasped and groped it's way to its very own fag-end, I read a fairly...
How to lose touch on social media
Like most people on social media, I have blinked and seen five years or more suddenly go by. Have I...
23 signs you’re dating a Christmas Fanatic
As the song goes, Christmas is “the most wonderful time of the year”, but for many of us, it belongs...
Alexandra and Raffaele
We are all devastatingly unreliable narrators. We only ever care for our own version of events. It can be...
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The thing about talking about ageing is there's always somebody older than you ready and waiting to tell you it...
Why you should never date the Christmas Refusenik
“I don’t do Christmas," he will say, his face pinched with misery. Quite a statement, and one loaded with meaning. To...































