Dilemmas

Dilemmas

Dilemma: I’ve never slept with a guy more than once

When it never goes further than one night, are you doing something wrong? Something you said? Regrettable hookups, straight mate experimentation, and the frenemy that is dating in the digital age…   Ben writes: I’m 23, a classic young gay millennial – working in the arts, attempting to make the jump to vegan, I learned who Cher was through RuPaul and Mamma Mia 2 (sorry!) – and I’m in a predicament. I’ve never slept with a guy more than once.  The notches on my bedpost from the last six years...
Dilemmas

Dilemma: My partner is too close to his mother

It's the old gay cliché about being a mama's boy, but what happens when Mommie Dearest gets a little too involved for your man's liking? Richard writes: My boyfriend is very close to his mother. Suffocatingly close. He calls her every day and they are on the phone for ages. She lives locally so comes to see us often. I discovered fairly recently that she even has her own key to the house, which caused an argument when I protested. My boyfriend says I wouldn't understand because my own relationship...