Why I’m not buying Jonah Hill’s homophobia apology

Spare a thought, everyone, for Jonah Hill – the character actor caught on tape this week telling an irritating, confrontational paparazzo to suck his dick, signing off with the beautiful “faggot”.

No sooner had the first bored internet user finished listening to the second syllable of “faggot” spill from Hill’s mouth than the Wolf Of Wall Street star was hastily beating a retreat, apologising profusely, his Hollywood bankability draining before his very eyes like an iPhone battery at a festival.

Hill has flung not one but two apologies out into the ether since the unfortunate incident over the weekend. First up was radio DJ Howard Stern’s show, in which Hill conceded the remark was “disgusting” and then again on Jimmy Fallon’s late night talk show. Oh, this is just a coincidence, I’m sure, but Jonah Hill has a new film out.

In his most recent apology, which is at times emotional – but this is an actor we’re talking about here, so big deal – Jonah claims the photographer had been following him all day and making personal attacks against his family. So far, so unordinary.

Jonah goes on to explain he wanted to hurt the photographer back and so used “the most hurtful word I could think of at that moment”. Although Hill assures the audience he didn’t mean the word in a homophobic way, the fact this word was his first port of call when he wanted to hurl the most horrific insult he could think of is very telling. “Faggot” is the worst he could think of? Really?

Rather than ask himself why that might be, Hill goes on to pull out his best “Some of my best friends are gay” shtick by claiming he has “been supportive of the LGTBQ community my whole life”. Watch out everyone! The killer is calling from inside the house!

Jonah Hill may think that dutifully doling out red ribbons for World AIDS Day and clapping politely at a same-sex wedding means he has no more work to do, but he couldn’t be more wrong.

By choosing to use a defamatory word as “faggot” to degrade another man, he is exposing prejudices that no amount of rainbow-flag waving can wash away – it’s that last creaky floorboard you just can’t fix, no matter how hard you try.

That accusing a man of being gay and inviting him to suck you off is the worst weapon in his arsenal puts Jonah back in with the big nasty boys at school, who’d shrink away from each other, towel-whipping in the changing rooms and screaming “No homo!!!” at the top of their lungs.

Surely during his time in the battery farm of insecurities that is the American high school system an overweight teenage Hill heard, and was called, much worse. But thanks to Hollywood, Hill has managed to scale the fence out of the loser pen and electrify it behind him.

The worst thing is not the fact Hill said the word – we have all told loved ones to go blow themselves or die in a fire – but his refusal to think about why that was his go-to insult, the thought processes that took him there, that is the biggest concern. When his celebrity status is in silent mode, and he doesn’t have a sequel to flog or a chat show chair to perch on, what is Jonah Hill really thinking?

I’m sure you’re sorry, you certainly look it, but it’s never too late to educate yourself, Jonah. Get yourself to a school and ask children what it’s like to be called a faggot, and then try to understand. The concept of words associated with homosexuality now being bandied about as almost acceptable insults is a grotesque one – it doesn’t need any Hollywood champions, no matter how brief their turn in the spotlight may be.

If you need a new insult to hand next time you encounter an aggressive snapper, why not try “arsehole”? That way, if you need reminding of it, you can head to the nearest mirror.

Advertisements

6 thoughts on “Why I’m not buying Jonah Hill’s homophobia apology”

  1. I totally agree with the things you are saying. What’s the deal with him if he apologies for saying ‘faggot’? How can it be the worst thing he could think off? There are plenty of other things. This whole apology-thing is just a trick to get support from the LGTBQ-community. Do we have to feel sorry for him? Because he was emotional? F*ck it. Actions have consequences and if they demolish your reputation, it’s your own fault;)

  2. I completely agree with you. The fact that “faggot” is the most hurtful word he could come up with should plainly illustrate how much work needs to be done. News flash, Hill: some people choose this label; own this label; are proud of this label. My other issue with his apology on The Tonight Show was the whole “sorry, but…” frame he used, justifying his behaviour in relation to the shitty behaviour of the paparazzi. The whole thing is just a bummer, and not because I’m surprised that a guy like Jonah Hill is exhibiting overt homophobia, but because it makes it harder for me to pretend that he wouldn’t when I’m enjoying one of his films.

  3. Bravo!

    No doubt Jonah was picked on for being chubby and as the old adage goes, sh*t flows down hill (no pun). I have no doubt, back in school he sat around with his chubby friends bashing others in order to make himself feel better.

    The Jonah we saw hurling homophobic insults is the real Jonah. I’d have a wee bit more respect for him if he just owned it and said, “Yah, truth be told people, I am a homophobe…” But that aint gonna happen.

    Many years ago, I was friends with a woman who had two sons. At the age of 20-something her eldest son came out. She acted all proud and completely ok with it. Until we had a falling out… Not long after, I found out she was calling me a “closeted lesbian” behind my back and that I should “just come out of the closet.” For the record, I’m not a lesbian but what I just could not wrap my head around is why she thought saying that to all and sundry, was some how damaging??? So much for her embracing homosexuality. She later tried to redact what she said, acting as though she had my best interest at heart, “Look, I’m your friend, it’s ok. You can come out and tell everyone your gay.” Ummm, no, you meant it as a means to shame, slander and/or bash me because deep down you’re not okay with homosexuality and you’re not ok with your son being gay. Rather than just walk away from our falling out, owning what is yours, you felt the need make me look bad (as if calling me a lesbian would accomplish this).

    I’m not gay, but if I were, I would be proud of it, not ashamed.

    Suffice it to say, we never made amends.

    Sadly, homophobia lives and breaths as strongly today as it did in yester-year, just like antisemitism, racism et al.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s